Interesting comments.
I've been LDS for more than 40 years and I've never seen any shunning. But if there is, it's not in any way condoned by the church. In fact, the church strongly discourages shunning. Why? Because it runs counter to the gospel of Christ, which teaches love and forgiveness. In one revelation to the church, the Lord states, "I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive; but of you it is required to forgive all men." The church can't control who gets shunned, and people are people.
As for those who call us a "cult," well, granted. We are a cult in the same sense that first century Christianity was a cult. Jesus was head of a small but eclectic group of followers that grew into a large, mobile community that threatened the religious structures of the day. Jesus declared himself the messiah in a day when the Jews thought he would come and free them from their enemies (see Zech. 12:12-14). Revelation had ceased for more than 400 years and suddenly an angel appears to the priest, the father of John the Baptist, and declares a new dispensation. John prepared the way, and then Jesus fulfills his destiny.
Joseph Smith was a poor New York farm boy who did odd jobs for people to get money to plant crops. He experienced a miraculous vision in 1820, and ten years later began to fulfill his own destiny. Was he a con man? Not according to those who knew him best. Of course there were affidavits signed by many of the townsfolk, but those who hired him and those who grew up with him said he was a hard worker and an honest man. But then Jesus had those who swore he wasn't such a sterling character and that he was sired by a Roman soldier, so who are you going to believe?
Scientifically, the Book of Mormon has only gained credibility and has lost none over the years. The DNA tests were on the wrong people and the entire issue has received a scholarly response from our apologists, which, unlike people in the Society, were encouraged to seek higher educations and are recognized as being some of the tops in their fields. These include professors of ancient scripture, archeologists, historians, antropologists and geologists. And the evidences for the Book of Mormon grow each year. They have a huge list of possible "problems" regarding the book and each year they check mark the areas they've eliminated. The book has one leg in 600 B.C. Jerusalem and Arabia and the other in Mesoamerica, where the Lehites are thought to have arrived and flourished. If anyone wants information in any of these areas, PM me, and I'll send you info backing up my claims.
Finally, the LDS church is the only Christian sect with apostles and prophets, and which claims its leaders are called and ordained by divine authority. We have bishops, seventy, elders, teachers, priests -- all offices held by the ancient church. When our leaders speak, we listen because we believe they are true apostles, and that the revelations they receive are of God.
Most of the people on this site know very little about what they're talking about when it comes to the LDS faith. When I've commented on the JW faith here, I make damn sure I know what I'm talking about or I apologize. I mean, it's fine if you don't want anything to do with our church or any other for that matter. I hate to see people driven to atheism by religion, but it happens when people feel bamboozled. I have read extensively on every issue brought up here and yes, some of our doctrine clashes with traditional Christianity. But we've learned from the Dead Sea Scrolls and Nag Hammadi fragments that ancient Christianity believed many of those same doctrines, like theosis and premortality of the soul. But one has to be open. The Lord will provide a great deal of evidence, but he won't give you proof (though I think he comes pretty close).
If you really want to follow the path to see if there's anything at the end, drop me a line.
See this comprehensive article if you're interested. It covers just about all the misinformation above.
The LDS church follows the law of witnesses for all conferrals of authority. The
Book of Mormon also had numerous witnesses, and none of these ever retracted
their testimonies, but carried them to the grave.
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